For a long time I haven't written because I
didn't know what to write. It is like everything all of a sudden stopped and
from being constantly on the move, I was standing still. I had prepared for the
trip during a year, then there was the trip during one year, then what? Normal
life can start again except nothing feels normal anymore. The trip had been my
life for a year. I had gotten used to moving every second day, packing my
rucksack over and over again. My daily life was to meet new people, get to know
them, then leave, meet new people and leave them too. My worries revolved
around finding a place to sleep and figure out what I would eat every day.
Washing my clothes was also something I sometimes worried about, but I soon realized
a T-shirt can be worn more than three days.
It is difficult to come back, as it was
difficult to leave. When I left I didn’t know what awaited, when I came back I
realized that what was is not the same anymore. Life has continued without me
and I needed to find my place again, with my family, at work, with my friends,
even in my apartment with my cats.
12 months, 6 travelogues, 75 blog posts (76
with this one), 5 continents, 16 countries, hundreds of people met, new
friends, some answers, many more questions... This is one way to summarize my
travel around the world. I have learned so much during this year, about
differences, about similarities, about happiness, beauty and ugliness, poverty…
All this is part of me now, and I am part of it too. I have left a little piece
of me in each place I have visited, with each person I have met… Left are the
memories… and the photos.
I know now that I can do it, I can travel by
myself. I manage on my own out there in the big wide world. And this world is
biútiful and it is worth leaving our daily humdrum for a while and take the risk
to meet the unknown. If you have the opportunity to do so, I warmly recommend
it!
Another thing I have learned is that hospitality
is everywhere. As the sign in the non-profit organization in Arusha states: “Kindness
is a language which blind people see and deaf people hear”. It is universal.
Even more than the differences, whether cultural, material or of any other
kind, what struck me the most is the universalism of humankind and its values. Children
are the same in Norway as in Africa or Nepal. They laugh, they play and they
need the same love and attention regardless of the place in the world where
they grow up. Sharing a meal in good company is the same in Peru as in Russia
or South Africa, or Belgium. Understanding transcends cultural barriers, even
languages.
It is not about where you are but who you
are and what you do.
I felt good in all your companies: hosts,
all you people who took me into your homes and treated me like family, fellow
travelers with whom I shared the marvel of discovering new customs and
sometimes incredible sights. I really really hope that some of you will come visit
me in Belgium some day, because I miss you.
To my family, to my friends : Thank you. I couldn't have done it without you. Your constancy, your love and most of all your faith in me was the most important item in my luggage. It was not always easy, but I know that you were always there for me.
And to you, faithful readers of my blog. Thank
you for reading me. It has been for me a way to make you participate in my trip,
my adventures. I hope you have enjoyed and that you will continue reading,
maybe share my blog with your friends if you like it. This was just the
beginning, more posts and travels are in planning. In fact, I am late. I was in Prague in
November, the post is planned, Norway for Christmas... Iceland is coming up in
May…
Travelling is a like a bug, once you’re bitten it never stops itching.
Yours truly,
Esthel